Yesterday I reminded you of the simple, powerful truth that you are given the chance to control yourself. The word for that is choice. Countless things are beyond your control but the choices you get to make trump everything . . . if you have the discipline to act on them.
Self-confidence in your action, purpose in your relationships, courage in your words, self-awareness in handling personal weakness, self-control in seeking amusement, self-discipline in managing impulses, moderation in food and drink, and thoughtful in your expenses.
Do the work.